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Published Date: 10 June 2007
THE rise of political correctness and fear of the twin spectres of unwanted attention and sexual harassment appeared to have consigned office relationships to the history books.
But now unashamed flirting is being touted as the best way to reach the top in the competitive world of 21st-century commerce.

Scottish businessmen and women are clamouring for places on corporate courses where they are taught to use their sexuality as a key to success.

Flirting for Success seminars, where besuited workers stare into each other's eyes, have been taking place across Scotland.

Entrepreneur Melanie Harris, who designed the flirty masterclasses, said the popularity of the sessions had dispelled the stereotypical image of Scots as dour and inhibited.

"They are very charming, and naturally engaging and witty," she said.

Members of the traditionally conservative Edinburgh Chamber of Commerce turned up in record numbers for a recent half-day flirting class.

Harris, who runs the motivational firm Training Tree, encourages her students to dance like Christina Aguilera and Justin Timberlake, to purr like cats and pretend they are relaxing in a steamy bath.

But Dr Linda Perriton, of the University of York, who specialises in studying the impact of women in the workplace, felt it was unlikely that modern-day women would return to the days of batting their eyelids at males in the quest for a successful career.

"This is a triumph of fluff over feminism," she said.

"I'd like to think that those who attend would treat it all as a bit of fun, flirt harmlessly and then forget all about it."

The full article contains 271 words and appears in Scotland On Sunday newspaper.
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  • Last Updated: 09 June 2007 8:18 PM
  • Source: Scotland On Sunday
  • Location: Scotland
  • Related Topics: Women and work
 
1

AJ fi Fife,

Fife 09/06/2007 23:24:09

I thought the days of young and ambitious fillies, hanging off one's trumpet were long gone!!!

2

www.scottwebb.co.uk..,

09/06/2007 23:38:36

Good grief :)

3

Hecate in the ether,

09/06/2007 23:40:27

Get a grip you pair.....er on second thoughts...best not looks like you two are already doing that..

4

AJ fi Fife,

Fife 09/06/2007 23:44:02

Hey Scottwebb,

Ye must huv some guid links for this subject!!;)

weeshooie,

Less o' the auld, ya auld cynic!!:)

5

AJ fi Fife,

Fife 09/06/2007 23:45:07

Hellcat in the Heather,

That's a bit below the belt!!

6

www.scottwebb.co.uk..,

09/06/2007 23:45:49

Comment@5 AJ.........i just might have my favourite of all time :)

7

www.scottwebb.co.uk..,

09/06/2007 23:48:15
8

AJ fi Fife,

Fife 09/06/2007 23:50:57

Classic Scottwebb!!:D

9

www.scottwebb.co.uk..,

09/06/2007 23:52:02

I'ts the guys face that has me in fits lmao :)

10

www.scottwebb.co.uk..,

09/06/2007 23:55:49

Now THATS what i call flirting :)

11

Guga II,

Rockall 10/06/2007 02:57:33

It could give a whole new meaning to the term "glass ceiling". Could be an eye opener.

12

Suck-McCrunchie,

Doomster Hill 10/06/2007 03:08:33

Excellent picture!

The line from that old public infornation advert springs to mind...

"Would you like to come to see some puppies?"

But just remember - sexual harrassment is when you are not rich and have a face like a well skelpt erse!

13

Ichabod,

10/06/2007 06:47:09

How unusual, a woman using her body to get what she wants.
Then she will cry 'chauvanist' or 'sexist' against any man that opposes her.
Life's a bitch, and then you promote one!

14

Ralph Kramden,

10/06/2007 07:23:02

One of these days Alice, one of these days..........

Now that was flirting :-)

15

Herb Aishus,

Border 10/06/2007 07:58:28

Is he lookin' down her semmit?

16

Helen,

10/06/2007 07:59:06

I'm a manager with a degree and postgraduate qualifications. I've got where I am through studying and hard work. I've never flirted with anyone at work in my entire career and would deal very seriously with anyone who did. There's a place for socialising in the workplace and I am friends with some colleagues, but anything else is totally out of the question.

17

The Man Who Knows,

Perth 10/06/2007 08:50:14

Helen, are you Miss Jean Brodie in disguise?

18

Hecate in the ether,

10/06/2007 08:53:44

15.....Soor grapes Ichabod are you a 'male munter' by any chance?

19

The Man Who Knows,

Perth 10/06/2007 09:00:57

15

Ichabod, Ichabod, the glory is departed!

20

Dumyat,

Dorset 10/06/2007 09:40:40

Ichabod is right: Life is a bitch!

21

Ichabod,

10/06/2007 10:24:58

21.

Nobody else will understand that I reckon.

22

Abel Magwitch,

10/06/2007 10:35:30

Some of the posters have been missing the small print in this article. It appears that both men and women have been applying for the "Flirting for Success" course. I for one would neither buy shares in or do business with a company which was flirting for success.

23

AD in sunny Livingston,

10/06/2007 10:58:39

If you have to go to classes to learn how to flirt then that's sad.

Either you've got it or you ain't!!

24

commonsense,

Fife 10/06/2007 11:12:31

#24
This is just speed dating for the office, and the ones running the courses should do very well.
I, like yourself, would never be involved in this kind of thing, and these brown envelopes and Anne Summers catalogue were delivered to the wrong address!

25

The Man Who Knows,

Perth 10/06/2007 11:20:42

26

commonsense in Fife?

26

calum,

10/06/2007 11:45:00

#18 You sound like a right laugh!

27

commonsense,

Fife 10/06/2007 11:45:41

27
I,but we can't always choose our neighbours!

28

The Man Who Knows,

Perth 10/06/2007 11:59:47

28

Calum, her vivacious personality and sense of humour shine through, don't they? Obviously a very successful lady but where would she be if she had flirted? The sky would have been the limit I think ...

29

Evan Owen,

By the sea 10/06/2007 12:04:08

I used to look after 13 offices and lost count of the number of times I was propositioned by the female bosses, the femal assistants and the wives of the few males running the show. Come to think of it every job I have had involved a female or two who had an urge!

Works both ways but women know how to flirt without making it so obvious that everyone else knows, unless they are in competition for the same target of course!

30

The Man Who Knows,

Perth 10/06/2007 12:16:10

31

Evan, you like yourself, don't you?

31

Tanja,

Malta 10/06/2007 12:29:23

When you try to make an impression, that's the impression you make.

33

AD in sunny Livingston,

10/06/2007 14:33:18
34

Yok Finney,

Ross-shire 10/06/2007 14:49:27

For a long time I've known we have an expense accout culture rather than any way entrepreneurial. But what does anyone WORK at thesedays:

-Scottish businessmen and women are clamouring for places on corporate courses where they are taught to use their sexuality as a key to success.

I have a dangerous corner on my shop floor where I do dangerous things like laying a 7m alloy mast onto the bench and extracting an ulikely scew with a hammer and big red impact driver. Methinks, I should diversfy into running (expensive) executive courses.

-- Members of the traditionally conservative Edinburgh Chamber of Commerce turned up in record numbers for a recent half-day flirting class.

Bet they left a dragon lady at their reception, in case anyone was fool enough to cross their theshhold and offer to start a business while they were out on the frolic. "Who let you in?"

-- Harris encourages her appretinces to dance like Christina Aguilera and Justin Timberlake, to purr like cats ..

OK we'll try raising the mast this way v. the usual raising the flag at Imo Jima method.

"What you need is Daz."

was the advice I got from the drummer of "Love and Money" after he seen us flirting energetically at the Breadalbine.

35

Evan Owen,

By the sea 10/06/2007 16:13:18

I was trying to point out that women are just as bad as men if not worse. If they were hit with the ugly stick as a child they still want to scratch that itch even if the man isn't really interested, in my case I only wanted to be friends but that often becomes a challenge. I love women but some of them are quite disgusting.

36

RedSwanie,

in my office 10/06/2007 16:49:20

Oh, Evan. sounds like someone needs to hit you with the humility stick. If there's any room left on ya after being hit by the disgusting man stick. Git a grip, man. I'm thinking all of those women were either feeling sorry for ya ("Let's toss the sorry lad a nice word, poor wee ugly thing.") or not flirting at all and you just imaged it all.

37

Euan,

Edinburgh 10/06/2007 22:32:27

I personally think that those who feel they need to flirt with their colleagues/peers to 'get ahead' in their jobs are nothing but a bunch of self-centered, up themselves TW*TS.

A prime example of this is that sly bitch Katie on last weeks episode of 'The Apprentice'.

Sir Alan Sugar saw through her flirting games from the start and everyone should take a good look at his people skills and act accordingly to avoid any other sl*gs like her trying to take the mickey.

38

Cassandra,

11/06/2007 01:22:32

#18 - wouldnae like tae work beside ye! Aabody shud flirt wi' baith men an wimmin tae get on weel - whit maks the warld gang roond.

39

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11/06/2007 13:47:34
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