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Published Date:
03 December 2007
THE number of men in the UK earning less than their partners has doubled in the past five years, according to figures to be released today.
More than half of women surveyed said they were happy to be the main breadwinner with a fifth pleased their larger pay packets gave them more of a say in the household budget.

The survey, by the online bank Egg, suggested the shift in roles allow
ed men more leisure time, much to the annoyance of their partners.

Despite being in full-time employment, 43 per cent of the men polled admitted having time to go clothes shopping at least once a week, while nearly a third were free to meet friends for lunch. One in ten found time to work out at the gym. Meanwhile, 27 per cent of women said they found being the main breadwinner stressful.

Alison Wright, Egg spokeswoman, said: "There really has been a change over the last five years with some of the old stereotypes of who earns the money and who pays the bills being broken down.

"Men have now fully appreciated that their female counterparts are capable of being the main breadwinners and, as a result, they seem to be embracing a life of leisure - much to the annoyance of most partners."

Edmund Farrow and his wife Elaine, a computer programmer at Edinburgh University, were happy for him to give up his IT job and combine looking after Matthew, seven, Daniel, five, and Joanna, two, with running his website www.dadsdinner.com which offers advice to men caring for children full-time.

"We talked it through and decided I was suited to being at home. But sometimes these decisions are made for couples by changing work patterns. With three children we would be spending a large amount of our income on childcare so it makes sense to do it this way."

Mr Farrow rejected the image that men earning less than their partners are having an easy time.

"I am not sitting at home eating biscuits. I worked out the hours I did when our eldest was a baby and it was the equivalent of working nine-to-five for nine days a week. That increased to the same hours 11 days a week and then I stopped counting.

"We also discussed early on how we would divide up our cash. We both have our 'pocket money' which means there is no resentment over who spends what."

MONEY ROLE REVERSAL

AMONG the new breed of men whose partner's earnings outstrip their own are Dr Neil Murray whose wife is JK Rowling, author of the best-selling Harry Potter novels. She has an estimated fortune of around £545 million.

Elish Angiolini, Scotland's Lord Advocate, has a full-time "househusband". Her partner Dom gave up hairdressing to look after their two children.

Jayne-Anne Gadhia, the managing director of Virgin Money who is masterminding the group's takeover of Northern Rock, is the major breadwinner at her Edinburgh home. Her husband, Ashok works part-time in property development and cares for their daughter.



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  • Last Updated: 02 December 2007 9:07 PM
  • Source: The Scotsman
  • Location: Edinburgh
  • Related Topics: Women and work
 
1

Ross Fyffe,

Scotland 03/12/2007 04:16:46

yes and who suffers ........... the children ..........

the EEC then EU destroyed Britain, nothing left except call centres and c*** jobs

2

Conan,

Moffat 03/12/2007 06:06:58

Sounds like 'UK' men need to get of their dead arses and quit feeling sorry for themselves, #1.

3

Samcafe,

Glasgow 03/12/2007 06:51:52

Why has the Equal Opportunities Commission not kicked up merry hell about these women who earn more than their partners

4

bill2,

03/12/2007 08:11:12

OK, they want it all, now they can have it all.

As long as they don't have a husband or children as well, that's fine.

Same goes for men.

5

Davesparx,

Cambridge 03/12/2007 08:42:52

I'm pleased about all this. It's all the equality that women always wanted...Personally, I can't wait to take the children to school and cook a meal for everyone in the evening. I think that men could really get used to women being the breadwinners. I think we'd get all of the 'home' jobs done with real efficiency. I'm already looking forward to those coffee mornings.

6

kimba,

03/12/2007 08:57:27

6. How on earth did men find it stressful,you lot didn't have to do a full days work,and then come home and start again on housework,cooking etc,don't make me laugh!

7

Nick_Byrne,

Glasgow 03/12/2007 09:27:12

It's not just my partner, it's everyone who earns more than me.

8

kimba,

03/12/2007 09:46:16

Well speaking for myself,I can do most DIY jobs around the house, as for car repairs I have a very good WOMAN mechanic,you see, my dad always taught us to rely on ourselves where possible, I'm afraid the only one giving men a bad name is you.

9

Nick_Byrne,

Glasgow 03/12/2007 10:09:45

It sounds like I'm getting the worse end of everything - I do all the diy, all the cooking, a lot of the washing up, most of the cleaning, all car maintenance pay a majority of the bills and get paid less and work anti social hours.

Clearly I'm doing something wrong.

10

Brad,

Glasgow 03/12/2007 10:11:38

#8, not sure you should always believe the "latest poll"...

11

Upbeat,

03/12/2007 10:16:22

pedantic point...but the use of the word "Earn" in this article is quite subjective. Better to have used to words " are paid" instead. .

It is increasingly rare for people in this service economy society to 'earn' through hard work , and dedication, what they receive in payment. Most draw a salary/pay package that is hardly related to the word "earn". Most others are remunerated on a sliding scale appropriate to age, experience, qualification or talent.

The use of the word 'earn' sticks in the gullet when associated with people who have lost any idea of where the money they take in payment for their occupation comes from. They remain quite divorced from any understanding about how that money relates to the real value of their role in society.

Too many people have a totally inflated opinion about what they are really worth...some are actually rewarded for this alone. It is not necessary to 'work hard or "earn" anything. Of course to be highly paid is nice. Arguably, too many people on high income do not deserve what they get and far too many of those who do not actually 'earn' their just reward are worth what they receive either.

12

McMicrogal,

03/12/2007 10:23:34

Very good point #13.

If there is any substance at all in this poll, then so what? Society is evolving, and so long as everything that needs to get done does get done then is there really and issue as to which gender does what?

Personally I am looking forward to giving up paid employment to look after my 4th child, but that is MY choice and MY feelings, not something to foist on anyone else.

13

Reckless,

Fife 03/12/2007 11:39:50

Nick Rockerfeller's plan is coming together nicely.

"In a later conversation, Rockefeller asked Russo what he thought women's liberation was about. Russo's response that he thought it was about the right to work and receive equal pay as men, just as they had won the right to vote, caused Rockefeller to laughingly retort, "You're an idiot! Let me tell you what that was about, we the Rockefeller's funded that, we funded women's lib, we're the one's who got all of the newspapers and television - the Rockefeller Foundation.""

Source: http://www.prisonplanet.com/articles/january2007/290107ro...

In contrast to this:
http://www.lds.org/library/display/0,4945,161-1-11-1,00.html

14

kimba,

03/12/2007 12:09:53

15. you pompous ass,maybe more dads should teach their daughters simple DIY instead of making them feel like second class citizens.

15

Bien E. Bien,

03/12/2007 12:28:31

This is a somewhat empty-headed survey. To say that the number of men earning less than their partners has "doubled" without referencing the sample size tells us very little.

Has it double from 1 million to 2 million? Or just from 1 to 2?

16

Reckless,

Fife 03/12/2007 13:58:41

I hear that career women in the United States are now beginning to suffer from male pattern baldness. They can have their cake, but we won't let them eat it, okay.

I've always said that men who opt to stay at home and become feminised house-husbands aren't really men. Some say that evolution will split our species in a few thousand years' time. I can see what they mean. Is it possible that house-husbands will lose their genitalia and backbones while agressive career gals go bald and develop male like genitalia? Could it be that proper men and women (like us) will become super human? Maybe it'll be easier if house hubbies changed sex to become house wives and vice versa.

17

kimba,

03/12/2007 14:49:45

20. My dad is the most wonderful,caring man,he works a 66 hour week,but still has time to give my mum a night off from cooking the evening meal,and that's every week,so stop being such a male chauvinist,you seem uncomfortable with showing your feminin side!

18

kimba,

03/12/2007 15:20:52

23,typical male, and yes,you do have a feminin side,ask any man who holds his new born baby for the first time,then cries his heart out!

19

kimba,

03/12/2007 16:27:00

25,like I said typical male, wouldn't admit anything that was seen to be weak,or emotional,you men all have your weak spots,only REAL men feel secure enough with their masculinity to admit it.

20

Media 1,

cape town 03/12/2007 18:53:54

When the female lions begin behaving like male lions, the cubs will die and the species will cease to exist.

Equality is important, there is nothing wrong with woman doing well and taking over in the business sector. But something will need to give, because nature never intended for it to be that way!!!!

21

Yok Finney,

Ross-shire 03/12/2007 19:19:39

-- I think that men could really get used to women being the breadwinners.

Aye, we could head to the gym or dojo, then a light lunch to discuss science and philosophy over afternoon coffee.

Though I'd expect our womenfolk would want the humble home to look "like a palace" when they returned.


 

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