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Published Date: 12 March 2008
A FRENCH woman's worldwide search for her snatched children ended when she chanced upon her daughter's photograph on the internet blog of a Scottish schoolgirl.
The mother had not heard from her children for two-and-a-half years, since their father abducted them and went on the run to Asia.

She had no idea where they were until she came across the blog of a teenager from Dundee. The girl had included p
hotographs of schoolfriends, and one was the woman's 14-year-old daughter.

Now the mother has won an order from a Scottish judge to have the girl, and her brother, 11, and sister, nine, returned to France.

The father, who is trying to avoid a jail term in France by fighting extradition, had argued that the family was settled in Dundee and the two older children asked Lord Turnbull to allow them to remain in Scotland.

But the judge said he was satisfied that the children's stated wishes had been influenced by their father, who had sought to turn them against their mother.

The Court of Session in Edinburgh heard that the couple, who cannot be named for legal reasons, married in 1989 and lived in England. They left for South America – where the man intended to set up a religious community in Paraguay – but made it only to Mexico. After some time in California, they returned to England in 1998 and moved to Spain, where they separated in 2001. The wife then returned to her homeland.

A bitter divorce was fought in the French courts, and the couple's eldest son stayed with his father, while their three other children lived with the mother. In July 2005, the father fled France with all four youngsters. He flew to Switzerland, and on to Bangkok, where their trail went cold. For six months, they travelled around south-east Asia and eventually moved to Dundee.

Lord Turnbull said: "Throughout the time her children were missing, (the mother] had taken active steps to locate their whereabouts.

"On 17 November, 2007, she came across a blog posted by a teenage girl attending secondary school in Dundee.

"On looking through this, (the woman] came across a picture of her daughter. She took immediate steps to involve the French authorities."

The woman petitioned the Court of Session for the return of the younger children. The oldest is now 17 and outwith the scope of the 1985 Child Abduction and Custody Act. The Hague Convention, on which the act is based, does not oblige a country to order the return of a child if the child has become settled. The father in this case used that argument against the removal of his children to France.

In the father's absence, he was convicted in France of abducting the children and sentenced to 30 months' imprisonment.

Lord Turnbull said it was quite remarkable that neither of the primary school-age children had mentioned their mother to any teacher, which served to demonstrate how far from normality they were living.

RISE IN 'TUG OF LOVE' CASES

A GROWING number of children are victims of "tug of love" cases where they are abducted by a parent in the wake of family breakdown.

Since 1995, the number of children "kidnapped" by a parent from Britain and taken to another country has risen by 93 per cent.

During 2006, the charity, Reunite, recorded a total of 270 new abduction cases, involving 414 children.

As international travel becomes cheaper and easier, and as employees move around the world with multinational firms, the number of international marriages – and divorces – grows.

The influx of Polish workers to Britain has also fuelled the number of abduction cases in this country. When one partner wants to return home to Poland and takes the children, the matter often ends up before the courts.



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  • Last Updated: 11 March 2008 9:29 PM
  • Source: The Scotsman
  • Location: Edinburgh
 
1

Charles Linskaill,

Edinburgh 12/03/2008 00:11:07
Quite remarkable!
2

Tracy C,

Aberdeen 12/03/2008 08:18:37
Very!

And I'm stunned as to how the woman was looking at a blog of a Dundee school pupil. What are the chances of that happening?!
3

voltaire's janny,

12/03/2008 08:20:33
So how does this man whose job seems to be founding religious communes make a living? Still enough gullible folk out there to subsidize global travel and identity fraud it would seem.
4

Gothic Rose,

12/03/2008 09:18:34
Coincidental or what?
5

WKKB,

12/03/2008 10:13:07
I have to wonder if the woman had some information that led her to the Dundee school girls blog. Otherwise it's nothing short of a miracle that she found the school girls and that her own daughter's picture just happened to be there. There must be more to this story.
6

Doreen,

The Cyber Shebeen 12/03/2008 10:23:57
Quite possibly she just googled the girl's name and her photo came up in 'images'....
7

WI in GA,

My desk 12/03/2008 11:11:47
Would they still have the same names though? I'd expect that if their dad was so sneaky he'd have changed em...

I too find it stunning that this woman in France comes across a Dundee schoolgirl's blog and takes time to even LOOK at the pictures!
8

Resolutions,

12/03/2008 11:56:17
What is worrying re the online safety of youngsters, is that a 'stranger' was able to access the schoolgirl's blog in the first place.

Ok She located her daughter, but it could have been a paedophile looking at those pics etc.

What about the other children involved? What about their security?

Time schools and parents enforced safety firmly on youngsters and online security.
9

Dbxsteve,

Dubai 12/03/2008 12:54:47
A remarkable story...but I feel for the kids. They have been dragged around the world, separated from their mother and now just as they have settled, their lives are thrown into turmole again....they must be emotional wrecks.
10

brettgallacher,

edinburgh 12/03/2008 14:32:40
i thought the een has been telling us for years how great the poles are they now saying they were wrong and all they have done is encourage child abduction
11

MichScot,

USA 12/03/2008 14:41:47
Most of those blog sites have an option to keep their blogs private. Our school had a session for parents to give them the basic information. Any parent,especially one who has had his child(ren) harassed by other kids, will tell you that it is wise to insist that the child's blog remain private. That will also help against evil adults, if the child stays with only people they know and/or are willing to talk to the parent about questionable contacts. These people can easily be blocked.
12

Jerad Reimers,

USA 12/03/2008 15:58:48
Thats good to hear that blogs can actually be put to good use!
13

Deborah,

Missoula 12/03/2008 18:51:53
What does the last paragraph have to do with the article? Neither is Polish, the Scotsman seems to be alluding to something else there... maybe forshadowing to another article? The last paragraph has no place here and is out of context. Tough one for the courts for sure...
14

Drum Major,

Brisbane, Australia 13/03/2008 04:07:58
No where in this are the courts taking any notice of the wishes of the children. How could he have taken them with him without them attempting to notify authorities if they did not want to go? They are 17, 14, 12 & 9. They would have been approx 15, 12, 10 & 7. They would all be capable of saying something if they chose to, with their previous international travel experience. How soon before they return to Dundee?
15

Thistle06 fae Greenock,

Expat 13/03/2008 04:53:10
As important as the blog issues are it seems to me no one is talking about the actual situation reported here. I suppose it's hard to condense the problem but let me have a go. Most parents love their children regardless of the breakup of their relationship. Though that committment failed for whatever reason they still have an obligation and committment to the children. Excluding extreme safety issues, no parent should have the right to remove children from the reasonable access of the other legally or illegally. These children have the right to share their lives with both parents. It seems there are so many of these situations because the relationship is over and one wants to start a 'new life' for themselves and they so often don't take into consideration the selfishness of the action. Why should one loving parent and the courts get to decide when another loving parent does not have the right to share in their children's lives. This sadly is often the case. Sure, start a new life but do it close by so the children can be normal enough to have 2 parents in their lives. Yes there are exceptions, yes there are safety issues but this is not always the case. Something has to change, innocent children and parents are being ripped apart and lives destroyed because someone wants to 'start over' or has a better job offer. These parents should make these decisions for themselves either when the children are grown or they should be prepared to move on without the children rather than overpowering another parent and simply applying to the courts, who, by the way don't love these children, and leaving to great distances. That in my view is just legal abduction. I'll bet the mother in this story didn't feel any worse than the father when the children were 'snatched' from her. She just had the law on her side. And I don't take lightly the fact that she was willing to move away to another country WITHOUT her eldest child. She didn't mind leaving him behind. She
16

Thistle06 fae Greenock,

Expat 13/03/2008 04:59:52
As important as the blog issues are it seems to me no one is talking about the actual situation reported here. I suppose it's hard to condense the problem but let me have a go. Most parents love their children regardless of the breakup of their relationship. Though that committment failed for whatever reason they still have an obligation and committment to the children. Excluding extreme safety issues, no parent should have the right to remove children from the reasonable access of the other legally or illegally. These children have the right to share their lives with both parents. It seems there are so many of these situations because the relationship is over and one wants to start a 'new life' for themselves and they so often don't take into consideration the selfishness of the action. Why should one loving parent and the courts get to decide when another loving parent does not have the right to share in their children's lives. This sadly is often the case. Sure, start a new life but do it close by so the children can be normal enough to have 2 parents in their lives. Yes there are exceptions, yes there are safety issues but this is not always the case. Something has to change, innocent children and parents are being ripped apart and lives destroyed because someone wants to 'start over' or has a better job offer. These parents should make these decisions for themselves either when the children are grown or they should be prepared to move on without the children rather than overpowering another parent and simply applying to the courts, who, by the way don't love these children, and leaving to great distances. That in my view is just legal abduction. I'll bet the mother in this story didn't feel any worse than the father when the children were 'snatched' from her. She just had the law on her side. And I don't take lightly the fact that she was willing to move away to another country WITHOUT her eldest child. She didn't mind leaving him behind. She
17

Thistle06 fae Greenock,

13/03/2008 05:01:31
(sorry had to break into 2 entries apparently)

And I don't take lightly the fact that she was willing to move away to another country WITHOUT her eldest child. She didn't mind leaving him behind. She may not have known where they were for over 2 years but there was likely little to stop her from moving again once she got custody and not informing the father of their whereabouts. That wouldn't have made the news though. Before you get defensive about what I've said, sit back, mother or father, and think really hard about how you would feel if someone told you your children would be moved across the country or to another continent and you will only see them once a year or once in a lifetime!

 

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