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Top headmistress attacks 'Botox and bingeing' culture facing girls



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Published Date: 18 November 2008
ONE of Britain's leading headmistresses has claimed children are becoming immersed in a materialistic "me, me, me society".
Vicky Tuck, president of the Girls' Schools Association, said parents were growing increasingly anxious that their daughters were growing up too fast, in a world seemingly dominated by "Botox and bingeing".

But Ms Tuck said the credit crunch might
bring unexpected benefits for the nation, by changing public attitudes, and she even hailed the economic downturn as "somehow bracing".

Ms Tuck, principal of Cheltenham Ladies' College, warned the annual conference of her association, which has more than 200 members, that the recession would mean private schools working harder to offer value for money, but urged them not to dilute traditional values.

Her views received a cool reception in Scotland, with critics claiming she was being "deliberately melodramatic" and using scare tactics to avoid parents pulling their children out of private education.

It emerged in September that pupil numbers at Scotland's independent schools had fallen for the first time in four years, with experts pinning much of the blame on the credit crunch.

Ms Tuck told the conference: "Sometimes, surrounded by media reports on Botox and bingeing, it's easy to feel we live in a moral vacuum, garden in a gale. But we must go on gardening.

"Am I alone in finding the economic downturn somehow bracing? Perhaps it will spell the end of the conspicuous and ultimately unfulfilling materialism of the me, me, me society."

She said that "prolonging the wholesomeness of childhood" was often cited by parents as a key reason for choosing a girls' school. She added that parents were "worried – aren't we all? – about a coarsening of society and the toxic cocktail of binge drinking, internet safety and the early sexualisation of girls".

Eleanor Coner, information officer at the Scottish Parent Teacher Council, said: "There is some truth in what she says about society today, but I find it a bit rich to hear a president of a private schools association complaining about a 'me, me, me society'." Ronnie Smith, the general-secretary of the EIS, Scotland's main teaching union, added: "I think she is deliberately exaggerating to try to instil a fear factor in parents of pupils at private schools. She's being far too negative about young people."





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  • Last Updated: 17 November 2008 9:57 PM
  • Source: The Scotsman
  • Location: Edinburgh
 
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Charles Linskaill,

Edinburgh 18/11/2008 01:54:42


Both my daughters attended private school, the reason was not for, 'snob-value', but because the local area we lived in, had atroucious state schools, it cost us an arm and a leg, to do this, with very limited luxuries, holidays abroad, fancy cars, meals out, etc!

Both my daughters were not pampered, and not made to think they were, above-the-rest, normal childhood they had, taught to have respect, and respect others.

Yes they went through the normal,'fashions fads' as all children do, this was allowed with boundaries and/of age, why make a child different to the rest?
Amusing also!, When my older daughter had a, 'bad-hair-day'!
Her dying of hai went badly wrong and turned out,..

..'Bright-Orange'! :))

A Lesson she herself had to learn, she was warned though! and covered her head when she went out with a cap!

As far as "Botox and bingeing", 'boob jobs' are concerned, anything like this would be in their and our Education of our daughters, as a 'no-no', they did not even think about it, it was something others did, like becoming a drug user, or alcoholic.

Fair enough, if in later in their lives, the later became the case, either we failed them, or circumstances led them to this, fortuanately this is not a case to be considered.

Ballance is the 'Key' for any child, no-matter, what!

I say 'PANT'S' to,.."Vicky Tuck"!!


2

Selgovae,

18/11/2008 08:40:55
"Ballance is the 'Key' for any child, no-matter, what!"

Good spelling doesn't harm either. :-)
3

Alternative (High-Octane) Fuel Head,

Edinburgh 18/11/2008 10:07:25
What the hell is "botox"???
4

Dave,

Western Isles 18/11/2008 12:08:25
Botox is the brand name of a toxin produced by the bacterium Clostridium botulinum.

It causes paralysis of the nerves in and around muscle. Hence injecting it into your coupon causes no movement and thus reduces the appearance of lines and wrinkles.

If not properly controlled it can spread beyond the injection sites to other areas of the body and can cause muscle weakness, difficulty swallowing and aspiration pneumonia, which occurs when you breathe alien material into your lungs.

Frightening? Oh yes!
5

Alternative (High-Octane) Fuel Head,

Edinburgh 18/11/2008 16:59:13
Dave,

If your description is accurate, how come botox is legal? Shouldn't it be a controlled drug, like, say heroin?
6

Kate,

Zurich 19/11/2008 10:39:13
"children are becoming immersed in a materialistic "me,
me, me society". Who says "becoming": so many of them already are!

Charles you are right. My brother and I were not spoilt or pampered, although we always had the best our parents could afford - ballet lessons, in exchange for piano lessons or riding lessons in exchange for stabling - a quid pro quo. We had to earn things, never had a video or foreign holidays while our "council estate" friends went abroad every year and had vcrs, hi-fis and so on at the drop of a hat...
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Shauna...,

Olympia 20/11/2008 16:56:07
As a teacher, parent, wife and the sister-hood we owe it to the voice that sparks us to notice. Our societies, currently, are much to do with "me" and the lack of "sacrifice" or "living for each other". These, of course, are hard to do, but I notice that means it is generally a sign that it is worth doing! Vicki leads a topic that hopefully reaches into the ways in which all of us can "lead"...
This means that we "the parents/adults" need to role model.....
As we women age, let that be with Grace.....My mother was very earthly and yet shown radiant with a beauty all her own (I know many who commented on her radiance)...I know it to be from an inner beauty, the daily life and service she gave for self and others.....
This gave her a self-worth all her own and she was a bright, genuine and kind being.....She did not find cosmetic vanity or external stimulus a requirement for being happy......She seemed blessed to find true happiness in the art of giving...and not in the material way, unless you needed a prom dress (of which she chose to hand sew or occassionaly splurge and buy one)...not using money as a means to an end. I remember we often gathered with family, had many girl's time with grandmothers, aunts, cousins, friends and new acquaintances.....I know church offers such extended functions, but we only went on occassion. However, there are for the ambitious an endless realm of routes to form relationships (eye contact is always best as oppossed to internet relationships without eye contact first)....look for common ground, create a space and topic that can draw you together.........this modern society offers plenty in the ways of crafting and such..........without the use of botox, cell phones or the flood of material items.......
As far as cosmotology in relation to hormones and girls growing up too soon..........tons of research now on food and nutrition (lack of) with growth hormones and girls reaching puberty three years earlier than 30 years ago.....

 

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