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Published Date:
07 November 2007
CHILDLESS couples are having to wait up to three years for a chance to conceive because of an unprecedented shortage of sperm and egg donors in Scotland, it was revealed yesterday.
Fertility experts say the crisis has been caused by new legislation, which ended the donors' right to anonymity, enabling children born after IVF treatment to make contact with their biological parents.

Dr David Farquharson, the clinical director
, Women and Reproductive Services, at NHS Lothian, said: "We are looking at ways of reorganising the service so that we can offer first appointments for people more swiftly.

"An extra investment of £170,000 was made into the service and this resulted in a reduction of waiting times at one stage to 19 months. However, rather than have to disappoint patients, at present, we are saying to potential recipients of IVF treatment that there could be a wait of up to three years."

Launching a fresh appeal for donors, Dr Mark Hamilton, the lead consultant at the Aberdeen Fertility Clinic, said that before the right to anonymity was abolished, the clinic had never had a waiting list for sperm donations. But two years ago, after the regulations came into force, only two men came forward as volunteer donors for an area covering the whole of the north and North-east, as well as the Western and Northern Isles.

There is now a nine-month waiting list for sperm donations. Meanwhile, the number of egg donors has fallen from 17 to nine since 1998, with a waiting list of up to two years.

There are currently 29 couples waiting for an egg donor and 17 couples waiting for sperm donations in the area.

Dr Hamilton explained that every year about 20 couples were referred to the centre in Aberdeen for egg donation and 45 for sperm donation.

He said: "It doesn't sound like a lot of numbers, but if you are the ones who can't have a child it's a pretty ghastly situation."

The shortage of donors was, he said, a national problem and not unique to the Aberdeen clinic. He said: "It was always difficult to tempt people to be egg and sperm donors - and that is for understandable reasons.

"But the rules and regulations around egg and sperm donation have changed in recent years - principally around anonymity issues, and nowadays the legal situation is that donors have to be identified potentially by children conceived in this way.

"That identification will not happen until the offspring reach the age of 18, unless they get married before that time.

"Naturally, that might put some people off and so nationally there has been a trend in recent years of fewer donors coming forward. That has led to a bit of a shortage nationally and in the local situation it has been more of a struggle.

"We are leading a kind of hand-to-mouth existence in terms of getting sufficient donors to meet the need."

Dr Hamilton revealed: "The waiting times now for egg donation are approaching a couple of years. Previously, we didn't have a waiting list for sperm donation and now the waiting time is something like nine months."

The cut-off age for treatment is 45, which could mean that some couples are too old to undergo IVF by the time donor eggs or sperm become available.

'Sophie has made us complete'

MARIE and Gus MacRae, both 32 from Inverness, are among the lucky ones. Their daughter, Sophie, conceived after IVF treatment, will be six months old this week.

Mrs MacRae explained that she was 19 when she discovered she was incapable of producing eggs and that her only chance of becoming a mother would be through a volunteer egg donor.

"We were devastated, but we weren't thinking along the lines of a family at that stage," she said. "We decided to put things on hold until we were a bit more settled and I went to the clinic for the first time when I was 26."

The first two attempts at implanting a fertilised egg failed. But at the third she conceived.

Mrs MacRae, whose husband works as an offshore scaffolder, said: "You can't put into words what we feel about these people [the donors]. They are amazing.

"Gus and I have been together since we were 17, so we were quite happy the two of us, but there was always something missing. Sophie has made us complete.

"We had two failed attempts and the third one worked.

"In between we had treatments and tests and we were then on the waiting list for donors.

"We had to wait a year and a half to two years for our first treatment to start."

She added: "The first two attempts we had were under the old laws and we had waiting lists then. When we heard about the new laws we were concerned because we thought it was going to take longer to get a donor.

"We were told the waiting list was going to be two to three years at worst. We did an anonymous TV interview to help recruit donors so we were lucky - we got moved up the list quite quickly because of the recruitment drive."



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  • Last Updated: 06 November 2007 10:04 PM
  • Source: The Scotsman
  • Location: Edinburgh
  • Related Topics: IVF treatment
 
1

Ginster's Pastie,

07/11/2007 01:21:09

I couldn't give a toss.

etc, etc.

The lifting of anonymity for sperm donors has crippled the service, especially as up to 10 children may be created by one donor.

2

Charles Linskaill,

Edinburgh 07/11/2007 01:25:07

Gosh this is a 'heart-felt' topic for my DYW and myself (DYW=darling young wife)
Can I tell you our story? will do anyhow!
I met my now wife just over 10years ago, I have been married before and have fathered two beautiful Daughters.
It really was 'out-the blue' I met my now wife and as all couples do (I think) we did not have sex to begin with, as time went on and we grew closer together, we decided not to use any contraception, not that we ever did, as my DYW was wanting-a-Baby.
To begin with, we never gave it much thought, not becoming pregnant, 'just one of these things'
After spending fortunes on pregnancy tests and the big 'NO' in the window, we seek'd help.
Three Doctors later over 4years and with only luck, we found through moving GP's practices, (because we moved address) a sympathetic Doctor, that knew something wasn't right and referred my DYW to the ERI NHS IVF unit.
They found out, DYW had PCOS (polycystic-ovary-symptom) in other words, without help she would be very unlikely to conceive without medical intervention.
Well we got the help over a 3year period, God can I forget? getting up at 6am in the middle of winter, to get to the hospital for a scan to see if it was, my wife's time to ovulate!
3years!, nothing working for us! I asked for a sperm retest, which they did, it came back 'dreadful', I was shocked!
The next stage we were told, was the mor serious part (egg, sperm removal etc)
We thought 'OK' maybe it starts next month, after being with the ERI IVF unit for 3years now, But 'NO' we were told another 3year wait for that!!
You know something, 2days later, I was alone in the car going into town and I suddenly just,
'Broke-down-in-tears', I couldn't believe myself, how it would affect me as a man, but it did and does!
Call it mad, I don't know? as I said I have fathered two girls, me a man, why am I bothered?, but yes I am!
As for my DYW, my heart 'bleeds-for-her', she i

3

Suzi B,

07/11/2007 01:34:01

#1 Charles. Yay, December!!!! Best of luck to both of you.

4

Charles Linskaill,

Edinburgh 07/11/2007 01:42:00

Sperm or Egg donation, or reciprocation, would be something we would both feel very strongly about, my DYW Say's, under NO circumstances she would want anyone else's sperm as a donation, to make her become pregnant.
As for us as a couple, to give and Donate, we would have to talk about it, we don't have a problem in the Donation part, if it helped other couples get pregnant, but part of us both, may feel we have a child out there, that we don't know.
Would it matter, as long as loved and cherished?
I really don't know! I could say, it don't matter its only a sperm or egg!
But something tells me, its not that simple!
Just as my wife says 'NO' I don't want anyone else's sperm!

5

Charles Linskaill,

Edinburgh 07/11/2007 01:44:33

Thankyou Suzi B, I will keep you updated, glad to see you around again, read your posts, by the way DYW works your neck of the woods!

6

Sylvia in Regina,

Canada 07/11/2007 03:39:45

#2 - Charles... Most interesting story, and I can see that you understand just what others are going through, and how sad it is that they have to wait for so long. My dear friend tried for over 8 years and finally put in for adoption... and 4 months after they had their little one, guess what??? She got pregnant. Now she has two children, and she says that the adopted one is just as loved as her natural born baby. There is always hope. Good Luck in December.

7

Guga II,

Rockall 07/11/2007 03:53:57

#1 Yes, that would be all you would need, ten, or more, kids turning up at your doorstep. Then again, you could always give them your mate's name when you made the donations.

8

Boy Wonder,

07/11/2007 07:51:21

Despite your various madnesses, Charles ... you know I wish you and the DYW all the best with your IVF. I really hope it works for you.

Generally, it's fine and well if the treatment works for couples. There's only one joy greater than giving birth to a child ... the day they leave home!!!

But seriously, everybody ... please remember, that if IVF does not work for you ... there are literally thousands of read-made children all over the world would like to have you for a mummy and daddy.

The troubles of the world creates orphans of all colours and all ages all the time ... and there is no sadder sight than a crying orphan child with no-one to comfort him or her in their lonely world. Please consider adoption. It can work for both the child and the prospective parents.

9

jj,

07/11/2007 08:57:51

Egg donation is dangerous to the long term health of the woman. The more people realise this the greater the shortages in the future.

10

Susan Seenan,

Scotland 07/11/2007 09:01:37

I represent infertility sufferers through the national charity, Infertility Network UK, and would like to reiterate the plea for donors to come forward to help couples who need this service. Adoption is not always an option for some couples and is certainly not an easy option with many finding it difficult or even impossible to adopt. Donor treatment is not always the right way forward but it can give some couples the opportunity to have a much longed for family. No one has the right to have a child, but where possible we need to give them the right to try for one.

11

phenomengirl,

Edinburgh 07/11/2007 10:17:54

I for one would like to donate but unfortunately by the time I decided that I would it was too late, I was too old.

I suspect that many older women, maybe after they have had their own families, may like to do this but find themselves in the same situation as me.

12

Biker,

Ayr 07/11/2007 11:00:47

best of luck Charles. BW I have to say that even when they leave home it is no reason for joy.... they return with debts, grandkids andmore social problems than you can imagine.
Seriously though 3 years wait is a long time and adoption can be a serious alternative. Myself and 'er indoors look after a 2 year old girl who has given us so much joy and happiness I couldnt imagine life without her now. Think about it, it could be a way through troubled times.

13

G,

ddundt 07/11/2007 12:52:09

And so it will stay until the stupid and ill-informed rules about anonymity are changed - even giving the donor the right not to be contacted would be a start.....

#2 Charles - I have been through IVF after a long protracted road of discovery of our conception problems - we now have a 6 year old son - the light of my live and the joy of his mother - best of luck....

If you can afford it - go private - it will speed up matters and it may even help the unit involved...

14

Isabel,

07/11/2007 13:53:34

#2 Charles

Good luck to you and your DYW. I am sure lots of us will be keeping you in our thoughts and hoping for a successful outcome of the IVF treatment.

15

Charles Linskaill,

Edinburgh 07/11/2007 21:46:13

Back to you all soon, helping DYW with project for the 'tot's' at her Nursery!

16

MoragtheToerag,

Argyll 07/11/2007 22:23:29

how about scraping the law then? or, as one poster suggested, giving the donor the right not to be contacted?

obviously the changes have meant a disaster for people awaiting donors.

although i agree, it's becoming more obvious that egg donation can carry some VERY serious health risks to the donor, both at the time of the procedure and possible long-term.

i would strongly counsel any daughter of mine never to consider doing this.

i feel sorry for the people who need an egg donor, but at the same time, i think egg donation should be abolished until the possible long-term health consequences are truly known.

17

Charles Linskaill,

Edinburgh 07/11/2007 23:30:34

First of all I would like to thankyou for all the support and kind thoughts and prayers, (even you BW ;-).)
Its funny, I never in a million years would of thought that I would be in a position, of ever wanting a Baby again at my age, (not that bad) just shows, you never know whats 'round-the-corner'
Being a guy and after doing my fathering bit in the past, I though 'that was that' for me!
DYW, wants a Baby! OK, I will go with that!, but as thinking.....'fine-then'..I am easy, one way or the other!.......its a Women thing!
How wrong was I? very, very, very, wrong!
As I have said many times, ask me £mills on the lottery or a Baby? it would be the Baby every time!
How MAD is that? ask me why? I still don't quite know!, but its for real.
We don't think about it 24/7 or let it rule our life's, I think we attempt to push it into the back of our minds most of the time.
DYW works with Babies and 'Tot's so it is always a topic of conversation, even tonight we were doing a project for the 'Tot's' on healthy eating for the 'tweenies' to do as a game/project/activity.
Funny, I never thought Men had maternal feelings as-well!
Funny, I never thought for me Babies would become Soo important in my life!
Funny, Never thought women's health issues, would be of importance to me!
Funny, I never thought I would be Soo passionate on the whole subject, but I am!
Maybe as our BW says, 'I need the meds' :-D
Again thankyou all for the listening and kind thoughts.

18

Charles Linskaill,

Edinburgh 07/11/2007 23:39:18

~18. contented little mum,
"I keep you both in my prayers (for what that is worth)"
Its worth it for us, just to hear you say it!! thankyou. xx


 

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